Pros:
- He has a great sense of humor and he gets my jokes
- Not bad looking
- Tall (big one in my book)
- Gentleman (opening doors, paying for dinner, etc)
- Tries hard to impress me
Cons:
- Not shy but a little quite (I felt like I had to be the one talking the whole night)
- I didn't feel any sort of attraction physically
- He took the time to cut up his chicken into bite-size pieces before he started eating. I just sat there and watched him quietly for about 10 min (he was very thorough)
- He is divorced and has a kid (not that there is anything wrong with that but I've never dated anyone with a child, so it freaks me out a little bit)
Needless to say, I didn't initiate the kiss, nor did I wait for one at the end of the night. I did say that I had a good time because I did but I am not sure how long this "relationship" is going to last...
On a totally different note, I got a call from an old college friend A. yesterday completely out of the blue. His parents just moved to my town and he is coming to visit them for a couple of days today. Forecast for the evening? I am seeing a night of Salsa Dancing in our near future (in a few hours to be exact)! He is originally from South America and he is the best dancer I've ever met! I can't wait to brush up on my skills ;-)
Ciao!
3 comments:
Funny--when I first met J there was no initial "spark".. He is a nice guyh.. BUt by the thrid date there was definite spark and things are going really well.. I would give the guy another shot or 2---you never know!
wow---i should have spell checked--oopsie!! ;-)
I agree with Kim. Give him a few more dates. Option #1 started out the same way with me. Slow. Now we are really clicking...so give it time.
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